You Need Your Lurking Cousin's Sister To Remind You To Take Your Medication

That "remember" your mom may have had issues and that these things run in the family and sometimes show up later in life. You promise her you won't be taking 500 mg of the horse tranquilizer.

She doesn't want to talk about the stalker whose been here for 1.5 years introduced formally by her sister. Nor the effects that takes on your mental health. She keeps redirecting the conversation back to your mental health.

She finally wants to discuss the stalker. She can't believe he's 60+. You tell her all of your uncles in their 60s and 70s on your mother side were in a do not give AF energy. They were so chill. They weren't chasing younger women around for their stuff. They never wanted to destroy anyone's life. She says remember I've never asked anything from you. We've always just gone to dinner. I've never wanted anything from you.

You send her the letter you want to send to your neighbors. She asks: "why would you want to send this. I would just work with the police?"

You tell her that this paternal side of your family are grave robbers. You have multiple examples and memory of people lurking around dead relatives and the things they own. And you've never understood it.

This is the DNA you don't claim.